1."Say it's not you, it's not me, it's you and me together that is not the best interaction right now, " Yager said.
“要说不是因为你，也不是我的原因，而是我们在一起目前不能给对方最好的影响，”Yager说。
2."The Downer is a person you have to let into your life with care because this trait can be contagious, " Yager says.
“扫兴者是一种让他进入你生活时你必须小心的人，因为这种性格会感染他人”，耶格说。
3.Yager suggests that when possible, friendships that only sometimes verge on toxic should be repaired.
建议如果可能，有时友谊接近破裂时，是可以修复的。